How to spice up your love life
Is Your Sex Life In The Gutter? We Can Help With A Few Tips
I hope some of you read my last blog on this. This is sort of a continuation of the subject.
Here is the thing: You do not always have to resort to kink, fetishes, or BDSM to rekindle the fires in your bedroom. Some people are not into that sort of thing. These tips work on both gay and straight couples(as I said in my last blog).
Once again, not all fetishes require some kinky situation(although, many of them do). Do you have a specific thing you like? Something that turns you on more than most other things? Did you ever share it with your partner?
Sharing your fetishes could help light the fire again. You might have told them and they forgot. Remind them.
One reason that some couples run cold in the bedroom is due to a lack of communication. Talk about it with them. They might have the same fetish you do. How do you know unless you ask?
They might feel awkward bringing it up because you never do. A lack of communication in the bedroom will start a lack of communication everywhere else. There is nothing to be ashamed of. Being made to feel ashamed of your bedroom interests is another reason that some couples run cold.
General intimacy is more than what you do between the sheets. General intimacy includes talking and holding each other. It includes kissing and fondling. You do not have to go all the way if you start kissing each other(sometimes a general misconception with couples).
Couples feel that they have to finish what they start. That is not always the case. Sometimes it is more erotic to tease your partner with what is to come later. Yes, you will be called a tease. However, that is the point. Make your partner want more.
Add in some dirty talk too. The idea is to get them worked up, but not too worked up. That way you can continue things when the time is right. The one thing you want to watch is the level of building up. You do not want to build your partner up only to not give them release.
For more tips, just go to youtube and type in “tips for a better sex life” and you’ll be presented with a ton of informative videos on the topic, like:
Create a list of potential sexual things you consider doing with each other or toys you’d like to try, like 성인용품. Yes, I know that does not sound romantic or erotic. However, that falls under the line of communication.
It will give them something to be excited over(especially if it something you have never done before). Create and compare both lists, and narrow the choices down to what you are both comfortable with.